DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT the sex life from our early years back, but I am scared I’ll push my partner away if I try to discuss it.
I met her three years ago. Our first few months together were heaven. I had never experienced sex like it.
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But as time went on, we fell into a boring routine.
I now have to ask for sex, which is limited to once a week at the most.
My partner never instigates it or does anything to me sexually.
She never compliments me and her texts are unromantic one-liners.
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I am 53 and she is 52.
I love her and will do anything for her, but I feel like the spark has gone.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I can understand your sexual and emotional frustration.
Relationships can go through phases where one or both partners lose interest in sex.
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